Diabetes Distress, Huh???

“Not me! I don’t have diabetes distress. Wait, what is diabetes distress anyway? But, whatever it is I definitely don’t have it.” I have felt the same way about many things, but it is not until I decide to get help or if my mother, brother, cousin, friends regularly express concern, causing me to get help, despite them. Then and only then do I find out what it is.

For example, research shows that growing up with diabetes causes Attention Deficit Disorder and some level of depression, which I have been living with most of my life. But it wasn’t till I was 30 years old did my girlfriend thought I had ADD and proceeded to nag me for six months. I was so frustrated that I went for testing, just to prove her wrong.

At the time if I had listened to her and followed her advice to get it checked out. I would have saved myself a lot of time and energy. Sometimes it is essential to let go of our stubbornness and let someone else guide us because we don’t always know what is best for us until it is usually too late.

If I never considered my girlfriends’ opinion and got the help, I would never have had the focus needed to help you and other people living with diabetes. Because diabetes is so complicated that I would never have been able to see all the areas diabetes affected and may have never felt confident enough to specialize in diabetes.

I have had several personal experiences with diabetes distress, and many people will experience at least once if not more during their lifetime. The scary part is that most people living with it don’t realize they’re going through it and may or may not get help. Thinking, they are having a bought of depression, and it will go away on its own.

Exhusted-Man-on-Couch-400Unfortunately, without the right support, it won’t. In fact, some who go to a therapist may get misdiagnosed with depression. There are several reasons why that is a bad thing, but treatment for diabetes distress is different than depression.

Diabetes Distress is a combination of depressive symptoms as well as problematic glycemic control and difficulties with self-care behaviors, caused by emotional burdens and worries that are related to the experience of living with and managing diabetes.

Usually, diabetes distress is more noticeable in people who are managing their diabetes well for years and out of nowhere they can’t seem to get off the couch to check their blood sugar or decide to start eating before they bolas when in the past they always gave it before eating. They used to manage their diabetes without a second thought now their thoughts relate to feeling victimized by diabetes. Feelings of helplessness, loneliness, and sadness around having diabetes have become constant.

One minute you are on autopilot, the next autopilot is off, and it is nearly impossible to steer or land the plane.

If you feel you might be living with diabetes distress, please reach out for help. For a free consultation please call (917) 272-4829.

If you are the parent of a child living with diabetes, life can be problematic, to say the least. My new book was designed to help parents manage the trials and tribulations of raising a child with diabetes.

Parenting Children with Diabetes
A guide to understanding and managing diabetes-related issues.

Parenting Children with Diabetes, published by Rowman & Littlefield, offers parents a 360-degree view of what is happening to their child living with diabetes, providing unique tools, insight, and education to help parents and their children navigate diabetes management, communicate clearly and effectively, and live safely and healthfully in the world around them.

About the Blog/Book Author:
Eliot LeBow is a Diabetes-Focused Psychotherapist and Certified Diabetes Educator whose practice is based in New York City and provides video sessions who has lived with Type 1 Diabetes since 1977. LeBow created Diabetes-Focused Psychotherapy to provide direct emotional help and founded the online platform “DiabeticTalks,” providing emotional support to the diabetes community worldwide.

Medical Disclaimer:
All the advice included in this blog is therapeutic in nature and should not be considered medical advice. Prior to making any changes to your diabetes maintenance program, please consult with your primary physician or endocrinologist.

Published by Eliot LeBow LCSW, CDE

Eliot LeBow, LCSW, CDE, is a diabetes-focused psychotherapist, diabetes-coach, presenter, and writer. His private practice, located in New York City and is also available via Skype. LeBow, who has been living with type 1 diabetes since 1977, treats the many diverse cognitive, behavioral, and emotional needs of people living with type 1 and type 2 diabetes. Diabetes-Focused Psychotherapy takes a holistic approach combining traditional talk therapy with diabetes education and management help. It addresses both the physical and emotional aspects of living life with diabetes while still addressing other non-diabetes related life problems to create a unique holistic approach to helping people with diabetes thrive.

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